How to Homeschool with Multiple Children
How to Balance the Different Levels and Ages
Know your goals, your intentions and your own time. With a blend of check-ins, independent learning and intentional learning days, you can have a fluid schedule that allows for breaks, freedom and sanity for teacher and child.
The Optimal Homeschool Schedule with Multiples:
- Designated “teaching” days where lessons are taught (ours are Mondays and Wednesdays)
- Designated “check-ins” which are usually at the mid day point around lunch or before screen time
- Designated “review” days which is usually Thursdays to grade lessons, make major corrections and prepare for testing/pre-test
- Designated “catch up” days for each child to have a chance to have 1:1 time again if overly struggling with subject or needs more intense direction (such as IEW or science experiment)
Daily Schedule Sample:
Sunday | Mon. | Tues. | Weds. | Thurs. | Friday | Saturday |
Catch-up | Teaching Day | Self-Directed Learning | Teaching Day / Check-ins | Review Day | Check-ins / Catch-up | OFF |
How It Works:
With multiple children who are different ages and grades and personalities, it’s hard to find that balance in the day and day. But here’s how our weekly schedule works – with a mixture of flexible and structured planning.
- Designated Teaching Days: Designated teaching days on Mondays and Wednesdays work very well right now for our elementary and middle school children because of the amount of subjects they have. Typically, the math lesson is taught to each child individually on Mondays. The language lesson and cursive is Wednesdays.
- Since our children wake up in a staggered fashion (very early morning person, mid-morning person and late sleeper) we can stagger up to three-four hours of instruction time. This staggering in the mornings ranges from 8am to noon for as many lesson subjects as needed. However, even if your multiple children all wake up at the same time or need to be awake due to your schedule, they can still stagger their schedules with you. Just select a subject and start alternating children until each one has had that 1:1 lesson time.
- Designated Check-ins: These designated check-ins are more informal times throughout the day. We check over the day’s lesson, depending on when the child says they are “done” with their work. We also do a quick oral assessment of their language, spelling, science and check over journaling for corrections.
- This allows for the children to be held accountable for completing their work. We assess if the work is done satisfactorily and then the reward is their free time and screen time. It also allows for a mental checklist for the child so they can complete chores and move on to the next part of their day. We all know they are “done” with necessities for the day.
- Designated Review Days: Review days are more formal and intense types of check-ins. This is when we can better assess the subjects as a whole and overall competency in the subject.
- We tag team the review days by selecting times in one day on Thursday for math corrections and language (during day my husband does these) and then I check over writing and/or science in the evenings. We do a quick oral review of vocab and spelling words during dinner and we can safely know that Friday tests are prepped.
- Designated Catch-Up Days: Catch up days are necessary and helpful for a variety of schedules, ages and situations. But we love it best because it allows forgiveness and faults.
- We all have those days that lessons don’t go well or the child is less than cooperative. Typically we have Fridays or Sunday afternoons to catch up. This gives a day with the stay-at-home parent to review more on all subjects and get the child motivated. It gives the worker outside of the home a chance to also review subjects with multiples.
Adjust over time…
Teaching multiple children is often a lot of work but it’s also rewarding. The schedule you set will slowly smooth out and over time, the subjects and time needed for the subjects will find a unique balance.
We value a self-directed learning approach so that we have (1) time and (2) sanity. With multiple children, a lot is going on in the day and you need to find a healthy balance of order, discipline and flexibility. Not all the lessons can be hand-held. There has to be a degree of independent learning and accountability so the child can learn and grow, learn to take initiative and come to you for questions and help.
Some Notes to Remember:
The Dangers of Older Children Teaching (not aiding) Younger Children
Older children can help with certain tasks but do not have the foundation in a subject to effectively and thoroughly teach a full lesson to a child
There are sibling rivalries and general playfulness that does not suit teacher/student dynamic and most times the age gap is not enough. If the children are more than 10 years apart, this might be a different case. Otherwise 6 years or less may cause more frustration and resentment than actual learning and growth. It’s important to know the limits of what can be taught and utilizing the extra helping hands.
What Older Children CAN DO
- Help give spelling test
- Guide child reading sections
- Check over answers with teacher manual
- Help with craft materials (like cutting/instructions)
- Help with typing
- Help sibling skip-count & flashcards
- Review vocab words
What Older Children Probably CAN’T Do
- Teach an entire lesson
- Grade and review a chapter or unit test
- Edit an final essay or written essays
- Teach new language words
- Explain grammar lessons
- Completely teach and grade new materials
The Day to Day
Depending on how you homeschool and how structured or unstructured your homeschool life is, you can utilize the ages of the children to help in multiple ways. Whether you make it flexible, structured or somewhere in between, teaching multiples requires improvising and goals. No matter what style your teaching is or what time you teach, knowing your goals and limits can better your day and overall satisfy your goals. Experiment and learn, modifying and adapting as you go. With us, after many years of schedule mishaps and confusion, we have found our own family rhythm that has created more learning, more success and less stress. That’s the goal.